If you’re in your 40s and somewhere between

“I love my life” and “how the hell did this happen?”

…and maybe a little pissed you didn’t go for more when you had the chance—

You might want to meet Lola.

She’s in her 40s.

Waking up a little.

Questioning a lot.

And realizing she might have settled… and she’s not entirely okay with that.


She makes bold decisions.

Avoids obvious ones.

And occasionally chooses chaos.


And at the end of each chapter…

You choose what she does next.


(Some choices go well. Some absolutely do not.

Just like real life.)

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Not a newsletter, just the thoughts I have when I’m questioning everything and refusing to settle for a life that looks fine on paper but doesn’t feel like mine.


No spam. No pressure. Just… thoughts.


Turns out… you don’t have to have it all figured out to start living differently.

If you’ve ever felt like:

  • you should have it all figured out by now… but don’t
  • you did everything “right”… and you’re still sitting there like is this it?
  • you’re somewhere between responsible adult and “fck it, let’s see what happens”

…you’re going to feel very at home here.


(don’t say I didn’t warn you)