Real life, real healing ,real hope.
A space for chronic illness conversations, trauma, healing , motherhood and all the bits in between.
Hi I’m Naomi grab a cuppa and come sit with me a minute .
If you had met me years ago , you’d probably thought I was just a mum , smiling getting on with life.
But behind that smile was a story nobody could see…
How do is start to put into words what my life has been like to finally tell my story to help me heal, to help me begin to let my trauma out…
The truth is for years I held this all inside deep down, so far down (Pandora’s box). That’s what i call the box in my head for all the things I don’t want to deal with.
I have no clue where to start my story.
Trauma stole 40 years of my life
This isn’t the worst photo of me, but as we spend more time around each other and I gain my confidence one step at a time, I’ll probably show you that down the line. We’re on this journey together and I’m here to say nobody should be alone ever …That’s why I made under the dressing gown community. Something brought you here. So stay come say hi and register to my exclusive content below. Don’t worry its free to join
Trauma stole 40 years of my life
This isn’t the worst photo of me, but as we spend more time around each other and I gain my confidence one step at a time, I’ll probably show you that down the line. We’re on this journey together and I’m here to say nobody should be alone ever …That’s why I made under the dressing gown community. Something brought you here. So stay come say hi and register to my exclusive content below. Don’t worry its free to join
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My journey Entry 1
19 July 2026
its been a long day …
I’ve just finished creating this.
Tomorrow I’m going to do a little more and learn how to link these url codes .
Ha hahahahahahahaha !
me doing something like this. Who would had thought it digital marketing and trauma are helping me get my story out.
I guess I’ll see you tomorrow. I’m tired my body Hurts so bad and I already know. I’m going to have a fibromyalgia flare. “ LOVE THAT FOR ME “.
GOOD NIGHT GUYS THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE.🤎
My Journey – Entry #2
21 July 2026
I’ve Been Keeping a Secret…
I’ve been bursting to tell you this…
I’ve been keeping a secret.
Not because I wanted to hide it, but because I wanted to give myself the time to build something that truly felt like me.
Over the last few weeks, my notebook has filled up with ideas.
Some have been crossed out.
Some have made me laugh.
Some have made me think, “Can I really do this?”
And then I remembered…
That’s exactly how every new journey begins.
What started as one little idea is slowly becoming something much bigger.
I’m creating something for people like me.
People who’ve doubted themselves.
People who’ve overthought everything.
People who’ve wanted to start but didn’t know where to begin.
I’m not building it because I have all the answers.
I’m building it because I’m still learning too.
You’ll see the messy bits.
The exciting bits.
The moments where I change my mind.
The moments where something suddenly clicks.
I’m inviting you to watch it grow with me.
One page.
One lesson.
One idea.
One step at a time.
I don’t know exactly where this journey will take me.
But I do know one thing…
I’m no longer waiting for permission to build the life I’ve been dreaming about.
So…
Here’s to taking chances.
Here’s to believing in ourselves.
And here’s to finally sharing the secret I’ve been working so hard to keep.
Thank you for being here.
The journey is only just beginning.
🤎Naomi
My journey Entry #3
25 July 2026
Kids broke up from schools , it’s been hard trying to juggle creating, my very own stuff and trying to stay present online has been hard I’m not going to lie , for somebody like me every day on its own just living with my conditions is hard so add in to that kids ,housework,my medications, my self care and much much much more . Well it’s draining so I’ve needed some time to rest so i thought id just do a quick entry log and come say hi.
I haven’t actually posted much as I’m still learning so many new things while i rest my body , so for people stuck in the”sofa mode” and feeling like your brain needs to be busy but your body needs to rest , for people with illnesses like mine fibro , arthritis,cfs,people pacing or just feeling low and depressed and those who think they cant do anything and aren’t worth anything.
Your worth more than you think so don’t stop keep going.
Goodnight all
Naomi🤎