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The SoftLife Academy

A 14-step roadmap to healing from toxic romantic relationships and elevate your life Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually & Financially in 2025!



I Lost 6 Years Of My Life Settling In A Toxic Relationship That I Can Never Get Back . Don't Be Like Me.


Are you a millennial woman struggling to make sense of the trauma and mental, emotional torment you experienced after ending a toxic romantic relationship? If you answered yes, The SoftLife Academy is here to help you heal & take back your power so that you can walk into your next chapter as the women who attracts the gentle & soft love you wish to receive. After leaving my own toxic relationship, I felt drained and broken, unaware of how the lingering stress and trauma had affected not just me mentally but my overall life as a whole. Everything just seemed out of place and to be honest, I was literally stuck in the mindset of "what just happen?". Being in this limbo phase made it hard for me to pick up the pieces and put myself back together. This course gave me the permission to let go of the pain and work through the confusion & shame and helped me to realize how the

relationship I thought broke me was actually the experience I needed to awaken my inner Queen.


What I love most about this course is that it goes beyond simply teaching new habits—it’s about healing from the inside out and reshaping how you view yourself. Each lesson helps you release the weight of the guilt and regret you have from choosing to walk away, and empowers you to reclaim your victory knowing you are walking towards something better. You’ll learn how to set boundaries, practice true self-care, and how to reignite your spark so you can start creating the new bold version of you.


Through small but powerful changes, you’ll start waking up with intention, confidently saying no without guilt, and embracing your wins without apology. Plus, you’ll be supported by a community of women who are on the same healing journey, with access to monthly group coaching calls that keep you motivated and empowered—especially on the days when you feel like giving up.


If you’re ready to rebuild your life, restore your self-esteem, and become the woman you were always meant to be, join me and the other ladies inside of The SoftLife Academy today!

It's Really Just That Good!

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It's Really Just That Good!

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The SoftLife Academy is broken down into 3 phases⤵





Phase 1: Healing



Step 1: Overcoming the What Could I Have Done Differently or Why did this happen to me mindset


Step 2: Stop Falling for Potential: How to Stop Attracting Project Partners


Step 3: The Love Bomb: Learn the difference between "love bombing" and genuine love


Step 4: How to Stop Self Sabotage in Your Future Relationship


Step 5: Stand on Business: How to Stay Disciplined to Not Going Back to What Hurt You


Step 6: Let It Go So You Can Grow: Accept & Allow Your Next Chapter in Life to Begin


Phase 2: Rebuilding



Step 7: Dating Again? How to Become the Women Your New Lover "Spoils"


Step 8: How to Romanticize Your Life and Become the Main Character After a Toxic Relationship


Step 9: You're NOT Asking for Too Much| Self-Love Habits I Adapted That Changed my Life


Step 10: How to Rebrand Yourself from Insecure to a Confident High Value Woman Effortlessly


Step 11: The Price I Paid to Live a Soft Life: How to Reinvent Yourself in Less Than 6 Months


Step 12: The Path to an Elevated Lifestyle| How to Make High Value Friends that Align With Your Soft Life


Step 13: Soft Life Hack| How to Sustain the New Version of You for a Lifetime


Phase 3: Enter Your SoftGirl Era


Step 14 The SoftLife Secret Course: The SoftLife Secret Course is for my ladies who’ve done their healing, started rebuilding, and are ready to fully embrace their Soft Girl Era! Inside, I’ll guide you through the 4 Pillars of living a soft life, so you can create a lifestyle that feels effortless, elevated, and truly aligned with the woman you’ve become.


Topics Covered in Step 14:


1. Breaking Mindset Barriers


2. Building a Spiritual Grounding


3. SelfCare


4. SoftGirl Etiquette


5. Financial Abundance

Everything you need to heal and start the next chapter of your life is in this one course...

This course is designed for the woman who’s ready to break free from the emotional aftermath of a toxic relationship. It’s not just about moving on; it’s about healing from within and rediscovering your strength, self-esteem, and purpose. If you’ve been feeling drained, stuck, or unsure of who you are after everything you’ve been through, this is the course to guide you back to yourself.


I’ve been in your shoes—carrying the weight of a broken heart, battling self-doubt, and wondering if I would ever feel whole again. But healing is possible, and it starts with you. This course will give you the tools and support to let go of the pain, rebuild your self-worth, and create a life that’s emotionally safe for you.


Through every lesson, you’ll learn to release the past, set healthy boundaries, and build a life based on self-love and confidence. It’s time to stop just surviving and start thriving—embracing a life filled with peace, happiness, and purpose.


If you’re ready to reclaim your life, your confidence, and your power, this course will be your roadmap.

The SoftLife Academy Covers it all for you!




1. How to break the cycle of meeting men that are toxic


2. How to attract a soft & nurturing partner/husband


3. How to adapt a privileged mindset


4. How to embrace your feminine receiving energy


5. How to unlock princess treatment


6. How to unlock extreme feminine confidence


7. How to breakout of survival mode


8. How to find your soul tribe


9. How to walk more closely with God


10. How to raise your standards & boundaries


11. How to balance motherhood and self-care


12. How to become a high value woman


13. How to increase your finances


14. How to start a digital product business




Hello Beautiful, my name is Atiyah and I am a Professional Soft Life Coach and creator of the SoftLife Academy course.


Based out of New Jersey, I created this course to help millennial women rebuild their lives and rediscover their self worth after coming out of traumatic and toxic relationships because I too went through a similar experience and know first hand how hard breaking the cycle of struggle love is.


Don’t waste years of your life being that “rock” for a man like I did. A rock is cold, hard, and empty—and that’s exactly what you’ll become if you keep living like that.


Being a “rock” for someone else while neglecting your needs isn’t strength—it’s self sabotage. It leaves you drained, disconnected, and wondering why you feel so empty. True strength lies in doing the inner healing and in knowing when to say, “Enough,” and choosing your well-being over someone else’s expectations.


Now I have boundaries in place that protect my peace and standards that honor my value. The moment I started showing up for myself, everything shifted. I stopped settling for breadcrumbs, and I started attracting real, reciprocal love in all areas of my life. The kind of love I’ve always deserved.


But I would have none of this if I didn’t make the mindset shift that I had enough and I was going to put me first. And if you’re ready to start putting yourself first, the Soft Life Academy is here to help you make that shift.


In this course, I’ll show you how to set boundaries, prioritize your peace, and attract the kind of love and support you deserve. No more neglecting yourself or settling for less. It’s time to stop being the “rock” for everyone else and start becoming the foundation of your own life.


If you're ready to change your life from the inside out, I'll be the support and guidance you need to stay on track and see real results inside of the SoftLife Academy!



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Fastest Growing Online Course!



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Packed with 70 juicy video modules to learn from




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Once you experience the safety of living a soft life you will NEVER go back to toxicity again!



INCLUDED BONUSES!!!


1. DIGITAL WORKBOOK

Just like in school, your digital workbook is where you will complete all homework assignments created for you to do your inner mental and emotional healing.


2. Accountability & Motivation (Coaching Calls)

Every month we meet for LIVE group coaching sessions. This is where we answer questions, get feedback, share stories and connect over life, business, motherhood and relationships.


3. Sisterhood

The days of feeling like no one understands you are over. Inside of the SoftLife Academy you get to form a bond with your very own SoftLife Sister. These connections relieve stress and are the start of a beautiful life long friendship!


4. Done-for-you digital products

Free products that you can use to start your own digital product business and start making 100% profit for yourself.


5. Life Time Access

With just one investment, you unlock lifetime access, giving you the freedom to return and refresh whenever you need.

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